That may be the question. The answer is both personal and financial.

If you're planning to buy a home, you probably have good reasons for your decision. It may be that you share the feeling that owning your own home is a key part of the American dream. But there are also financial issues involved in buying real estate that you need to consider as well.
From one perspective, a home is an investment, maybe the single largest one you'll ever make.
Like certain other investments, real estate has the potential to increase in value over the years, so that you can sell it for more than you paid. It can also lose value, sometimes dramatically. If you need to sell when real estate prices have dropped, you may have to settle for a lower price than you'd like, or even less than you paid to buy the home.
But unlike investing in equities such as stock or mutual funds, which you buy as a way to achieve your financial goals, most people consider owning a home as an end in itself.
FAMILY GIFTS
If your parents or grandparents are willing and able to help you out with buying a home, each of them can give you a tax-free gift of up to $13,000 in 2010. If you're married, they can give your spouse an equal amount. It's a case where a timely gift may make a lot more sense than a future inheritance.
Be careful, though. Gifts over the annual tax-free limit may be taxable for the giver. And loans from family members earn
imputed interest if the lender doesn't charge you any — or enough — interest. That means he or she has to pay income tax on the interest that normally would be paid even though you didn't pay it. One exception occurs when a parent's loan enables a child with no investment income to buy a home.
HOW BUYING WORKS
There are usually three distinct phases in buying a home: accumulating the down payment, finding a mortgage, and building your equity by paying off the mortgage loan.
- Generally you need a down payment of at least 10% and sometimes as much as 20% of the purchase price available in cash in order to buy. But you can investigate some federal and state programs, like those run by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) or the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), which require a smaller amount up front. Your attorney or real estate agent should be able to tell you about special programs. You can also do some research online, starting with the website of the US Department of Housing and Urban Development at www.hud.gov.
- Check your credit report to be sure there's no negative information that may make it difficult to borrow. Everyone is entitled to one free credit report each year from each of the three major credit bureaus. To access your report go to www.annualcreditreport.com and follow the directions. It may be a good idea to ask for one report at a time, and return to the site later in the year to access a report from a different bureau. That way you'll know if something shows up on your credit history during the time you're looking for a home, and you'll have time to get it resolved. It may also make sense to purchase your credit score.
- When you have enough for a down payment, you can begin looking for a home and a mortgage. A mortgage is a long-term loan that provides the money you need to buy the home. You pay the loan back, usually in monthly installments over a 10- to 30-year period.
- When you've arranged your mortgage and bought your home, you gradually build your equity, or ownership, by paying off the mortgage. In most cases your monthly payment will also include enough to cover the real estate taxes and insurance on the property.
WHAT IF YOU'RE TURNED DOWN?
If you're single, it may be harder to get a mortgage than if you're married, and it may be more difficult for a single woman to qualify than it is for a single man. You may also face lender resistance if you're a member of an ethnic or racial minority. While it's illegal to discriminate based on age, race, or gender, lenders do turn applicants down.
If you're turned down, ask why. Find out which credit reporting company the lender used to check on your credit history and request a copy of that history from the company. It should be free of charge since you've been turned down. If there are any obvious errors, follow the instructions on the report to have them corrected and check up on your request. If the negative information is correct, and your credit history has flaws, at least you'll know the factors that may be blocking your application and can begin to strengthen your credit credentials.
Sometimes you can make out better applying to a bank or credit union where you already have a relationship. You might also work with a mortgage broker who specializes in finding interested lenders. But be very careful. These brokers may make a profit by guiding you to unscrupulous lenders. You might also consider a private arrangement with sellers who would be willing to finance the purchase — although you don't want to do that without the advice of a real estate lawyer you trust.
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